Attractiveness is not something that is all physical. Physical attraction is important but what happens when your physical beauty is gone? What then? In order to be attractive to future spouse, be holistically attractive. Your spirit is the one thing that most people notice about but sometimes cannot pinpoint why they notice something about you. Those people usually want what you have. This is holistically attractive. You take care of yourself inside and out.
For instance, right now, I workout like my life is depending on it. Guess what? It is. I know if I don't change then I could be slowly killing myself..... so I am not trying to become physically attractive to my future spouse but that is just a bonus. But, I am also trying my hardest to become closer to God because this is what I know God wants and something I have a yearning desire for. If you have a wonderful relationship with God and your future spouse does too... let me tell you, you will be attractive to that person no matter what you look like. And your future spouse will be the same to you. Who said that we are supposed to pinpoint the kind of attractiveness we want in our lives? Only God knows that. We may know what we want but God knows what we need. Honestly, I think being physically attractive is just a bonus compared to what your spirit can be. I pray that this challenges you to want to be more like Christ and you will have the best love story you could ever dream of.
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