Okay, how many of you have been constantly asked, "So are you dating anyone yet?," "Do you have that lucky someone yet?," "When are you going to find someone to spend the rest of your life with?" Okay, seriously? I am more than just a relationship. I hear this question from just about everyone. Honestly, at this point if I were dating anyone, I would be telling the whole world about it. I know those people just mean the best, however, when you come back with "I just haven't found anyone yet," or "Nope. I'm just waiting for the right person to come along." These people automatically go to the next statement, "Aw, that's okay. I'm sure you'll find someone eventually," or "Are you sure you're supposed to be with anyone if you haven't found someone yet?" I just have one question for you. Is that all I am supposed to live for? Am I not supposed to make something else of myself than a wife? I do want to be a wife and mother, don't get me wrong, but it just hasn't happened YET? Yet, is the word used. Yet will come around when God says it will. Until then, I'm going to live my life for Him. Shouldn't that be what I should be doing? Shouldn't that be the relationship I should focus on? I have heard so many people talk about being "whole" when they find that someone. I am whole now. I know I will be with someone who compliments who I am not completes it. I can be complete without someone on my arm. Just so you know, this is allowed. God wants us to be pursuing Him in our lives, not pursuing someone else. He has that person for us already, we just need to let God take the reigns and that other relationship we all long for (even those who keep asking about them) will happen, on God's timing.
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