parents' relationships

I am learning the importance of my parents' involvement with my relationship with my future husband.  I know it's kind of strange to invite your parents into a romantic relationship with your future spouse but who else would know what you needed in a future spouse than your parents?  They have watched you grow up and they have watched your personality change throughout the years and they know what kind of person that you need in a future spouse.  I want in my future spouse, someone who is able to talk with my parents about the kind of person that I am as well as how to "win my heart". 

When my sister was a senior in high school she started dating my brother-in-law.  By the time her freshman year in college came around, my brother-in-law came to my parents and asked them how to win my sister's heart.  I actually have never heard of anyone since asking their future in-laws about winning their future spouse's heart.  I find this rare and amazing that my sister has a husband who took care of her by learning how to win her heart.  This is a new way of saying that the woman should be pursued in her relationship with her future husband but in something that is more romantic and beautiful than anything else.  Men, "win" your future wife's heart.  If you learn and study her, she will feel more cherished and loved than any other woman in the world.  Women, allow your future husband to pursue you and treat you the way that God wants him to treat the church.  It will be one of the best decisions you have ever made.  I will one day find out but I do know it's out there.  God will provide someone for you that will be everything and more than you ever imagined.